I recently read this somewhere:
Being right is less important than being successful.This isn't the first time I've heard this idea, but when I read it this time it hit me as profound.
Consider:
- A leader who takes ownership of an idea of a team member, frustrating the team member and damaging trust.
- An argument with a customer that becomes counter productive because being right becomes the primary concern.
I could list other examples, but I'm sure you have thought of your own.
We all have the opportunity to make a choice in these situations. This quotation reminds me of the importance of this choice.
When you feel yourself focused on being correct, ask yourself if that focus is serving your biggest goals.