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Unleashing Your Remarkable Potential
Issue 5.13 - March 31, 2008 - ISSN: 1551-6571

In Kevin's Own Words

It's More Than R & R - The Biggest Benefit of Taking a Break

I recently read a poll and of the nearly 1000 people who were asked, “Do you need a vacation after your vacation?” 87% of them said yes. It is clear that the commonly stated purpose for a vacation – rest and relaxation – might not be working very well!

While most of us take vacations and look forward to them, perhaps we aren’t getting from them what we most need. But, before I get to you and me, let’s look at how some other things in our world use a break:

• Bears take a long winter break – they call it hibernation.
• The tulip bulbs in my front flower bed have recently begun to peak through the soil. They spend ten months of the year seemingly dormant, preparing for their annual coming out party.
• Deciduous trees lose their leaves in the fall and take a break, restoring their energy to grow and create new leaves in the spring.

Now – getting a bit closer to home –consider breaks that more closely resemble our vacations:

• Kids (and their teachers) get a break from learning around the holidays and in the spring, and, in most cases, a longer summer break as well.
• Sports teams take timeouts to consider where they are, decide what to do next and catch their breath. (I know, you hope your vacation is longer than a timeout!)

So, what do the results of the poll and all of these examples have to do with you and your vacation or the breaks you take?

Everything.

While there are many reasons to take a vacation – to be with family and friends, explore something new, get a suntan, or <insert-your-favorite-reason> – most of us come back to R & R (rest and relaxation). All of these reasons are important, but the biggest benefit from any break (whether 2 minutes or 2 weeks) should be a third R – rejuvenation.

Bears, tulips and trees are resting over the winter; but more than that they are preparing to create their purpose in the following year. Bears couldn’t succeed, tulips wouldn’t flower and the trees won’t grow without their break to rejuvenate. 

Kids and teachers return to school renewed and refreshed. The burnout from several week or months is erased and they are ready to go again! And while sports teams are getting hydrated and catching their breath during the time out they are also preparing for their future success – another part of rejuvenation.

Let me ask you a question.

If 87% of people surveyed say they need a vacation after their vacation, are they getting the rest and relaxation they sought?

More importantly, are they getting the rejuvenation that they need?

Even more importantly, are you?

How to Achieve Rejuvenation

It’s one thing to tell you that a goal for your break should be to rejuvenate. (If you hadn’t considered that before, now I hope you agree.) But it’s another thing to make that happen.

Here are five things you can do to make sure that every break – long or short – helps you refresh and rejuvenate for greater vitality, energy and success.

Make it a goal. Whether a 7-minute power nap or a 7-day cruise, recognize that rejuvenation is a goal. On the cruise that might mean one less late night or a bit more exercise. It might mean a bit less stress over the details of your “perfect vacation” and a bit more time for serendipity. When you make it a goal you will determine what you can do to make your break refreshing and energy creating.

Think of the total you. You are more than your body. Rejuvenation is about refreshing your minds and soul as well as your body. When you think of it this way, you recognize that there are different activities and approaches that refresh each part of you. Which leads to the next point . . .

Recognize what works for you. Maybe you need exercise, time at the spa, a manicure, or a stack of books. Maybe you need the sun or the energy that comes from good friends or a great meal. Maybe you need all of those things to refresh all of who you are. Take some time to think about those activities and situations that refresh and rejuvenate you. And remember that you don’t have to wait all year for these activities or try to cram them all into one vacation...

Don’t wait for once a year. Hibernation and dormancy are not the lessons we should take from the trees, tulips and bears. We aren’t wired the same way, and we don’t need to take weeks and months to rejuvenate. Look for ways to spend a weekend, afternoon or an evening with the express purpose of replenishing your mind, body and spirit.

Start now. The end point of the last point is that you don’t even have to wait at all. Consider what you can do right now to rejuvenate. A 7-minute power nap? 15 minute walk? Shooting some baskets? Knitting a sweater? Writing in your journal? Reading a great book? Talking with a positive or creative colleague? Make sure that you keep short breaks in your arsenal for creating greater mental, physical and spiritual energy and vitality in your life.

Your Comments: Please visit Kevin's Blog to leave your comments on this article.

Potential Pointer: Rest and relaxation are fine goals, but limiting. To get the most from any break you must do more than rest and relax, you must use those activities as a way to rejuvenate to live every day more fully, happily and successfully.

Kevin

Kevin's Recommends

The Secret Language of Business: How to Read Anyone in 3 Seconds or Less
By Kevin Hogan

Normally a book with this title wouldn’t make it to my reading list. But when the book is by Kevin Hogan, 19-time author and a colleague of mine, I’ll take a look. In this case I am glad I did.

Kevin opens the book by addressing some of the reservations I had for reading a book about body language and nonverbal communication (and he defines the difference between them). Can we make this highly complex issue valuable without making it some sort of playbook of moves? Is there real research in this area that can point us towards greater understanding of these communications? In both cases, the answer is yes. This provided me with additional comfort in continuing to read.

The Secret Language of Business brings the science of nonverbal communication into the office, team, leadership and selling environments. It is based on Kevin’s research in the area of influence and what seems to be an exhaustive summary of the academic research as well. While this research background is important to me, I don’t want to read a textbook, and thankfully the book delivers in this way as well. It is written in a manner that is easy to follow and remember the lessons learned.

In fact, my favorite part of the book’s format is the review section at the end of each chapter, called the Chapter Take Aways. These summaries remind you of the chapter’s key points and serve as the perfect re-entry point for future review. Each chapter also has a worksheet with questions to help you further apply the lessons from the chapter.

I just received the book and haven’t made it to the end – but I will finish before you read this.

Why the rush? Because if you buy your copy today, you can get some great bonuses too! Pick up your copy of the Secret Language of Business and forward your receipt to slb@kevinhogan.com.

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